12 Things You Realize About Relationships Only When You Find The One

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Some people enter relationships only because they are afraid of loneliness. Others might do so because they fall head over heels in love with somebody.

12 Things You Realize About Relationships Only When You Find The One

Some people enter relationships only because they are afraid of loneliness. Others might do so because they fall head over heels in love with somebody. Yet, regardless of the reasons, I think we can all agree that we want our relationships to be powerful, meaningful, and long-lasting. So, here's the real question: What makes a good relationship?


I guess the first thing that came to your mind is love. And I believe you have often been told, and you may even believe in this yourself, that love is enough, and when there is love, nothing else matters. But, is this the case?


I have seen many couples that loved each other deeply, and still, their relationship fell apart after some time. I have been there myself many times. I saw my relationships crumple many times in front of my eyes until I finally found the one who taught me what it feels like to be in a happy relationship. I’ve also realized that such a serious relationship requires much more than love.


A good relationship makes you aware of everything you did wrong in your past relationships, but you failed to realize. It makes you aware of your needs, wishes, and expectations.


A good relationship also teaches you valuable lessons; here are the 12 most important ones:


1. If somebody genuinely cares about you, they will never put you in the position to question their love for you. They will never string you along neither avoid committing to you by saying lame excuses, like “I need to focus on my career at the moment.” or “it’s not the right time.” Because it'll never be the right time until it’s the right person.


2. If somebody truly loves you and wants to be beside you, they’ll be with you. They will never allow anything and anybody to ruin your happiness and tear you apart. Moreover, they'll let you know how precious you are to them and make sure that you always feel protected and safe.


3. You learn that meaningful and successful relationships require much more than love. It requires hard work, patience, understanding, respect, commitment, compromises, compassion, sacrifice. It requires work on yourself and to be willing to become a better version of yourself.


4. Love won't look and feel the way you thought it would. However, a good relationship will teach you what true love feels like.


5. You won’t always know the moment when you first meet someone with whom you are meant to be together. “Forever” is attained once you face many challenges and go through several ups and downs.


6. When you truly love somebody, then you accept them for who they are. You accept them with all their faults, insecurities, quirks, and fears. Perhaps their bad habit of talking loudly or leaving their stuff all over the placeannoy you. However, these are things you do not try to change because they are a part of the person you're in love with and they make them special. So, you learn to accept them and cherish your loved one with all their imperfections.


7. You do not need to pretend to be somebody you're not to impress your partner. You learn that even if you do or say something silly or embarrass yourself, your loved one will never make you feel unworthy. When you are in a meaningful and deep relationship, your loved one makes you feel more confident and better about yourself.


8. Spending a few days apart from one another doesn’t make you doubt your relationship and your partner’s love for you. They might be miles away, but you'll still know that their heart beats only for you.


9. Arguments don’t tear you apart, but they bring you closer instead. They improve and strengthen your relationship.


10. You don’t give up on each other. You never give up without a fight or without giving your best to fix your problems and make things work.


11. You learn that kissing, cuddling, romantic surprises, and date nights are sweet, but they aren't commitment. They aren't a willingness to endure the difficulties that appear in every relationship sooner or later.


12. Last but not least, you know that when you are finally in a good relationship, you are completely satisfied with your choice. You do not look around to find somebody better. You don’t search for your happiness in other people. You feel relieved and lucky because you've found the one you have always wanted to be with.

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