12 Clear Signs You Are An INFJ, The Rarest Personality Type


The INFJ personality type might be quirky, complicated, and even downright contradictory.

12 Clear Signs You Are An INFJ, The Rarest Personality Type

Alessio Albi

The INFJ personality type might be quirky, complicated, and even downright contradictory. How do you know if you are an INFJ, the rarest of the sixteen Myers-Briggs personality types? Well, if you relate to the following 12 signs, the answer is probably yes.

1. You always felt different from those around you.

Even if you had many friends, you never felt as you truly fit in. You sometimes faked being more like them so that they would accept you. This is typical for an INFJ, as we need a sense of community and harmony with the people around us.

2. You always want to know what’s going on in other people’s lives.

It's not just about trivial stuff like what your friend did this weekend or what your cousin bought on their latest shopping trip. You truly want to dig deep and get at those things that nobody else sees. What does the person sitting in front of you really think? How do they truly feel? The fake facade that they put up for other people can't fool you.

3. You're classy.

You are drawn to high-quality things, such as good food, stylish clothes, and anything else which has good craftsmanship. As much as you don't want to admit it, the way things look is significant for you. You like being surrounded by beauty, so you have sophisticated, refined tastes. But you are a minimalist at heart. You would prefer to have one or two truly nice shirts rather than ten mediocre ones.

4. You’re social, but shy too.

You can be both incredibly shy, quiet, and withdrawn, as well as charming, fun, and hilarious. For an INFJ, it’s all about the situation, your mood, and energy levels — and most important, the people you’re with.

5. You know how to handle problems.

When somebody comes to you with a certain problem, you usually do not give them advice or your opinion if they don't ask. Instead, you ask them questions in order to help them better understand their situation and their emotions. Sometimes you tell a story of something similar that happened to you, in the hope that they will draw their own lesson. You can usually see the path they need to take, but you do not want them to do it only because you told them to — it has to be their decision.

6. There are limits to your introversion

You're an introvert, and you like spending time alone, but you can’t be alone for too long. You'll eventually need to reunite with your people: a handful of good friends who truly understand you. Deep conversations with them are priceless, and hanging out can actually boost your energy.

7. You care… a lot

You are usually thoughtful, conscientious, and considerate. Others who aren't as conscientious as you can seem callous and even cruel.

8. You are a people-pleaser

Sometimes you try very hard to make other people happy, and you tend to forget to make yourself happy. (That's likely one of the biggest problems you will struggle to overcome.)

9. You are empathic.

You often feel like you see exactly what somebody else is feeling, and you believe you can know what they need deep down. You aren't always right, but you're usually more perceptive than most.

10. You love books.

You love learning, particularly when it comes to psychology, spirituality, self-improvement, and certain sciences.

11. You're a perfectionist.

You almost always have this sinking feeling that you could be doing better with your life. This leads you to constantly have secret self-improvement projects going on, such as learning how to cook healthy meals, getting better at articulating yourself, or setting better boundaries. Sometimes you push yourself too hard because you attempt to achieve your “perfect” life.

12. You have a great defense mechanism.

Sometimes you turn to people-pleasing to protect yourself. You are sensitive, so you can get really bothered when someone criticizes you or is disappointed in you. They cannot criticize you if you make them happy.



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Love Unconditionally: 12 Clear Signs You Are An INFJ, The Rarest Personality Type
12 Clear Signs You Are An INFJ, The Rarest Personality Type
The INFJ personality type might be quirky, complicated, and even downright contradictory.
Love Unconditionally
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